
Welcome to The Psychology of Dating in the 21st Century
Overview of the Book
This website has been set up to keep people updated on the writing of this book, but also as the main depository for your stories of online/offline dating successes and failures.
I'm most interested in events that surprised you. If you are up for sharing you can click here to leave your mark!
The site will also hold polls to collect data on things of interest to you in the dating world.
Topics of the book will include:
-
The history of Dating
-
First Impressions: Do's and Don'ts
-
Types of Chemistry: Smoking HOT to NOT
-
Attachment: The good, the bad, the ugly
-
Ghosting and other phenomena ​
-
Dating Etiquette


CURRENT PUBLICATIONS
GASLIGHTING: SOPHISTICATED ABUSE IN THE WORKPLACE
October 2017
Dissertation
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF DATING IN THE 21ST CENTURY
Summer 2024
The much-anticipated book covering all you need to know about the psychology of dating in modern times. Tricks and Hacks you need to know!

Reach out! Let Phoenix know what you're thinking!
If you want to tell Phoenix a story about dating. Click here instead